Sacrificing your happiness in relationship
You want to be perceived as an equal to your partner, which doesn’t mean mothering him or pampering him all the time.
However, helping him or 'being there' during his hour of need is necessary, which is different from wrecking the relationship by going overboard in doing so.
Here are 6 things you should avoid overdoing for you man:
Quit trying to solve all his problems
Solving problems for your man
Whether your man has financial woes or workplace issues, avoid trying to rescue him from all his troubles. Listening, guiding, and being a helping hand are all okay to some extent, but going all out and extending your hand can make your man indecisive and helpless to take on responsibility in the future.
Showering him with expensive gifts all the time
It’s better to gift each other gifts of equal value in a relationship. Gifting you man more expensive gifts than he can afford to gift back to you might end up making him feel awkward and bad about himself even. What’s worse is that an immoral person can use you for what he wants in such a situation.
Avoid being a shoulder for him to cry at will
Men don’t fall in love or respect women who only feel sorry for them and become a shoulder for them to cry on. The fact that your relationship is deep and fulfilling only because you are unconditionally there for him emotionally and spiritually is a misnomer.
The real secret of happiness in a relationship lies in supporting and inspiring your husband to reach greater heights.
